29 Jan 2011
> I want to measure some
> sure sweetie, no problem
> I’m peeking
> For the sake of art as art
> Shall we try?
> What do you say is more sexy?
> But in art, this is, you know she is a daring girl, she needs something that would be really sexy
> Yes, this is the more daring items
> What do you say is more sexy: with pantyhose or without?
> As if I should be really sexy, this is the thing
> Sexy with a wow
> A belt?
> What, what’s the deal with the sexy?
> We need…
> For an exhibition to be very, very sexy
> You know what would be sexy?
> If you come only with this
> With nothing underneath?
> With nothing underneath
> The truth is so
Photograph & Text: from the video ‘sex appeal’ by Reut Ferster & Karin mendelovici, 2010
07 Dec 2010
I’m calling you without knowing your name.
I’ll probably meet you again.
Photograph & Text: Ifat Bar-Lev
17 Nov 2010
At the Afula Bus Station
I changed a bus
I waited for an hour
at the “all in a dollar” shop
I found a little book
300 tips for better sex
by Limor Blockman
I bought the little book
and I entered
the public toilets
The first advice from variety advices for the lady
“make him loose his mind while talking with him on the phone:
tell him what your wearing, or not wearing…
and turn him on by telling your plans for the rest of the evening…”
The last advice from variety advices for the man
“visit a sex shop together:
ideas and accessories will bring new color to your sex life. After all, a little child hides in us and just waits to add another toy to his toy collection…
The second advice from practical advices
“A hotel room, an environment devoid phone calls and troubles – will give a wonderful cheerful boost to your sex life. The eroding routine will turn into a to an indulging optimism.“
Photograph & Text: V.P.
20 Aug 2010
“Sex according to Sangarakshita is rooted in the Lower Evolution and does not, in his experience, enhance communication between individuals. And sexual relationships, encouraging as they do neurotic dependence on one’s partner, need to be kept at the periphery of one’s life.”
27 Jul 2010
I want to have sex with her on the floor.
To skin the white, and blue
off her sagging flesh.
I want to remove her stained bra,
shamelessly stained, and her dirty underpants.
I want to vomit all the ridicule
of this world on her head.
To beat her up. To shut her mouth.
Oh how much I want to shut her mouth.
Oh how much I want to break her bones.
To pound nails into her flesh.
But they won’t stick (too rotten.)
Oh, to torture her.
Oh, to torture her.
Text: E.E., 1992 Photograph: Vivian Pandora
19 Jun 2010
10 Tips that will improve your life immediately.
Must Read and Pass On!
Presented by the four cosmic Divas…
1. you won’t get anything out of your sexuality, but sex. Use it wisely and choose good partners.
2. Don’t think about it too much. Just be beautiful. Be an animal.
3. After you turn the other chick – leave!
4. Breath in, Breath out.
5. While having sex with your lover, play a game – call him by 100 different names.
6. Don’t be afraid of cliches, especially those concerning horses. If you love somebody set him/her free.
7. Reduce by fifty percent the time you spend in front of the computer (including face-book and other sites and blogs).
8. Pet a furry living creature everyday.
9. Make sure to keep a brand new under-were, a towel and a bed sheet, just in-case you’ll want a refreshment…
10. Water is nature’s Champagne. Cheers!!
Text & Photograph: HTN + KTM + HRW
29 May 2010
What do I find sexy. The black color has something intriguing in it when someone is wearing black it makes it mysterious and sexy most sexy in my opinion accept my partner are actors there is something in their faces very stiff but when they speak very gently and soft and I find the combination very sexy and the look of my wife is the most sexy thing on earth the look of a person is the sexiest his talent turns him to a sexy thing chicks that laugh and smile and know how to enjoy life that makes me want to get close to them and of course big tits and after sex sweat the way she looks and what she’s transmitting sense of humor cinema in late noon and what I find mostly sexy is the gap between the tits when its hidden and promising it makes all the quality of her femininity her talent that’s how I fell in love with my wife the first time I saw her and of course the ass I have special fetish for smells the smell of fresh clean laundry arousing pleasant sensations in my body but I would go for the cliché of a kissing couple that is sexy a good humor and good heart and talent these things are the most sexy in a man authenticity is the sexiest their talent makes them even more sexy then they are I need a man with beautiful and sexy face shoulders smell a certain music can make me feel sexy in parties there are some magical moments when I feel sexy when you dance and feel your surroundings and he is beautiful and there is something bastardly and dark in him I am probably attracted to the dark side beautiful like a smart and intelligent woman and interesting like a good looking girl but she’s not very interesting because her looks is just goes to waste the one who’s challenging me and creating the tension between man and a woman is the girl I am dating now she has tons of femininity talent sense of humor and stubbornness I have a very strong fetish for glasses if someone wearing glasses will pass next to me in the middle of the street that would be impossible for me to miss him otherwise we are talking here on a huge frightening there are most chances that I’ll turn my head after him something is getting arranged there in the face level and what they wear music for me is following all kind of moments in life if it’s a music you can listen to or a music that comes as a clean vibe music is the soundtrack of life when you stand next to something and you give it a deep look and every moment there’s another layer pilling out without noticing many layers are creating something three dimensional it happens with men and women and turtles and zucchinis all your boundaries are melting a summer light flowery dress no sleeves and good heart and intelligence I can’t cope with these things when they come together and anyway in the last few years I am developing some kind of fetish to mustaches people who know how to make good food is the direct way to my heart and I deeply appreciate the connection between food and sex litchi is one of the sexiest and juicy fruits there are the sexiest is my girlfriend cause she is clean she is the cleanest human being I know she is straight and honest she is a saint and I find it sexy when it kills me and surprises me like a spark in the eyes or any other characteristics which are not being considered as sexy at all but they are combining into something that you want to get close to naturally without making any efforts when people are going with what they are and not trying to be someone else if you are a dork so be a dork and if you are neurotic so be one my man is the most truthful guy he has a clear state of mind rhythm & blues heavy body men I love to feel small next to them I ride the horses since I was very young and I think that if we could take some looseness from this savage animals and go all the way that would be the best because of the combination between simplicity and boldness for instance if someone wants to be with me and I am pissing on him so he should tell me that in my face and won’t go around with something else cause he needs to be honest and real with me and that makes me very horny and thinness and good taste not in this particular order because I see so many gorgeous girls in my work and I appreciate simplicity and natural coolness that comes out of men with black and gold colors I am a freak of everything boobs and tennis player’s asses because of the skirts the shape of a nice chick when you can see her ankles when she wears short pants makes me horny her deep purple color with red spots if you take a picture of you tide to bed hands up and I am pulling your hair that would be so sexy lips and chick’s asses that’s what works for me summer sweat on a big muscular body and rough and it doesn’t make any efforts at all.
Text & Photograph: Itay Ziv (text edited from 100 sexiest people of Time Out Tel Aviv, 2010)
01 May 2010
Text: so and so Photograph: anonymous (a postcard from the Jaffa Flea Market)
02 Apr 2010
A Sexy Talk about Food and Composition
K: Let’s start. I think Hummus in a can is one of the most severe things developed ever.
T: We wanted to talk about the desire for suffering, didn’t we?
A: I wonder about the function of the chocolate cubes on the table.
T: Yuck! What’s that?
K: This is a South-American pie with Romanian influence – half Mamaliga and half “unknown”. It’s made out of corn, tastes good, but not good looking.
A: I wonder about a functional treatment towards material, towards food. Something nutritious… What about the conceptual point of view?
K: Are there any parameters or criteria to decide whether a certain food is sexy? Let’s say I want to recommend my best friend how to make a sexy dish, what can I tell her?
T: I ask myself which food can evoke passion. For example, I read in a blog, that there is a mess in the U.S because of a soap opera that showed a sex scene between two men. That was a scenario without sex and without passion either.
A: So there must have been a lot of soap there.
T: Two bored men, very clean, that looked at each other in “a loving look” inside a hotel room, took off their robe very gently and slowly – total boredom.
K: If you see a sex scenario and you experience it as total boredom does it necessarily have to be boring to the participants? Can we take away the Hummus can please?
A: May I make an action with the cigarette? The action in that scene meant to cause a reaction within the observer. If it brings a nostalgic response I guess it is not boring.
K: Nostalgic? What is sexy?
A: I think that sexy depends on a collection. A collection of objects or actions that has to do with composition in space exactly like our attempt to set a table. I think sexy is…
K: Does it have to to with intention?
A: It has to do with representation and composition. The way of representing something unfolds an intention.
K: It is influenced by fashion. The questions is, if an individual decides for himself what is sexy?
A: The way of representing things has to do to the material and to the common denominator.
K: So sexy deals with the mass public?
A: It’s about agreed signs that a society has and you can project from the body onwards.
K: Let’s make an example: it’s considered sexy for a woman to use nail polish. If she doesn’t use it, but considers the “natural way” to be sexy – will it be sexy?
T: If she feels sexy it is sexy.
K: So it’s about how she feels or how the society looks at her?
T: We can make a distinction between what is considered to be sexy and what really is sexy.
K: Sexy is when a person feels comfortable with himself.
T: But not too comfortable. Though for awakening you need some extent of comfort
K: And some extent of discomfort as well.
T: Also movement.
K: Maybe it’s all about leaving an empty space. That’s what can enable the movement. “The sexy” relates to an empty space.
A: It’s about color, form and composition. It’s about a common sign. It’s about connections between objects, like the cigarettes and the chocolate cubes. I think that we were fed out that cigarettes and chocolate are sexy. Cigarettes for example symbolizes power, masculinity, femininity, attraction, power. What can happen from this combination?
K: Maybe you can burn the end of the chocolate?
T: Let’s take out the nylon bag. Something is annoying with this composition, but I feel a relief.
K: Maybe it has to do to a person’s mood. We want to make a mono-chrome scenario.
T: I think that the sesame triangles are unnecessary.
A: I think that the tin foil is necessary, it brings us radiance.
K: You got a point. Now it’s calm. I would add a cigarette. It’s an interesting question – the combination between two types of poisons – the apple and the cigarette. Are the glasses important for the balance?
T: No woman no cry.
A: It is a testimony.
K: Look at the obelisk. It’s a phallic structure that transmits power.
A: I think that the space of sex is aggressive. It’s a tool that you can achieve things with it
K: That’s right. you can use it as an aggressive tool, but not necessarily.
A: It depends on the intention of the action, on consciousness.
Text & Photograph: K.A.T
02 Mar 2010
someone or something. highly attracted to someone or something.
She was really quite taken with the young man who escorted her to the ball. 2.
The audience was taken with the stage setting. 3.
Carpenter was so taken with the sculpture that he persuaded the town to sell it to him. 4.
I was really taken with her, and admired her talent and personality.
See also: taken
Text: McGraw-Hill Dictionary of American Idioms and Phrasal Verbs Photograph: KM
03 Feb 2010
a hand reaches behind your shirt, rapidly edging upwards.
you reach for his face, trying to find his eyes with yours.
you know the beast, you know it well. but you hold on to the romance. cliffhanger.
as he reaches the middle of your spine, you think:
“he is going to find me out.”
and you moan ever so slightly,
and you think:
“he is going to be disgusted.”
and your eyes close and you hold on, thinking:
“I can get through this.”
but you know he’s had 7 beers and the vodka and soda you got him,
and you think, “bastard. head-start.”
and you leave his own insecurities for tomorrow’s missed calls.
but if it were the other way around.
“I could beat you in a second over green tea, so I could.”
and you wonder – when did love become a contest?
Text: Shahaf Ifhar Photograph: Vered Parnas
24 Jan 2010
9 Jan 2010
Dear Ms. Veronica Revenge P.
I stepped out of the hot shower this morning and without even hesitating wore your white robe that you left at my place, it was kind of an urge, an impulse.
It took a while for the robe to feel comfortable on my body, it still maintained the shape of you, it’s fibers contained your smell, that peculiar – toxic smell, a mixture of wine, blood, milk and honey.
Honey, that sweet and sour odor of yours made me feel soiled, it reminded me of how you robbed me of my innocence.
I felt like taking another shower, and than again and again, until my skin rubs off.
while taking the robe off, i spotted that stain, that old stain from our first sex (or making love as you used to declare), that stirring violent sex.
Those few words that you whispered in my ear immediately after coming, are burnt on my insides forever, you said you like me.
I am not like you, I’m not even sure i like you anymore.
I seek no revenge.
I took a shower in order to erase your memory, but i took this photo in order not to forget.
Photograph & Text: Uri Gershuni
18 Jan 2010
1. A woman’s diary pages or a description of a great sexual intercourse
2. The adventures of where will I sleep tonight
3. Yossef Simantov’s confession
We were together for hours. I’ve been concentrating on him, without other thoughts, without analyzing the moment, without thinking if I want it or not. I was simply present. I’ve run out of words, I’m not concentrated. Didn’t manage to talk to anybody. I want this feeling forever. I want him, I’m scared. I’ve lost control, want to tell him, but can’t find the words. writing it down as to perpetuate the moment, the smile, this emotional intensity. I’ve been thinking about his flight, whether to plan a “relationship status” discussion. I’ve never initiated such a talk. I don’t actually believe in long distance relationships. Suddenly it looks like a possible option. He managed to enter through my subconscious and my conscious defenses. I try to understand how it happened. Last week when he just landed he tried to get closer while we were sitting at a bar, but I ran off. I was attracted to him intuitively. It was a crazy fuck. He left, but the thoughts remained. Maybe it’s only sexual attraction. Maybe everything will disappear the moment he’ll get into the plane. I started to think how I will visit him on vacations. I’m interested to know if he has similar thoughts. Maybe it’s just an affair, but it doesn’t feel like that. I do feel mutuality. It feels real. Maybe it’s just a clever strategy. He’s really smart, and besides he’s a salesman too, so he probably understands what he’s doing. No, but it can’t be unreal, otherwise I wouldn’t have removed my cloth. I want so much a hug from him, as so to feel that it is real, like I think it is, and just to feel him for one more moment. Maybe I just let myself feel this way because he is leaving. The last two days with him were so perfect. I don’t remember when was the last time I had such a perfect sex without alcohol or drugs. When was the last time I was so concentrated when somebody else was next to me, without other thoughts. To be with somebody physically and mentally. Maybe I’m wrong and maybe everything will change, but it’s really what I feel now. Yesterday I daydreamed wildly. Also today. I’m full of fears. A real smile rises on my face. Yes, I want to try it out with no restrains. To check it out. The sex was so good. I’ve got the courage to take chances. I’m not afraid from the bad things neither from the good ones. Always standing on both legs. What a wonderful feeling. Don’t know what to do with myself, he doesn’t get out of my mind. Don’t remember if it happened to me before. As a matter of fact, yes! Since he’s been away I haven’t been hanging around with other men. All the time thinking only about him. I want him near me. It was too short to make a commitment, but it had this wonderful intensity. I waited. Maybe he’ll be in the messenger, but he wasn’t. It made me sad. When we spoke for the last time he told me that he felt like me. But maybe we don’t have the courage to take a decision. If he won’t be at the messenger till I go to sleep… But it’s also easy not to commit. I think that I do love him, I think he touched my heart. Goodnight. What a magical night I had last night. No, not with him. He was just a good fuck. No! Not good, but excellent. Men will do everything to get laid, women will do everything to get a hug. it is acquired. It isn’t from birth. Because women like to fuck and men like to hug. And then a touch… and all the body feels, the head is empty, everything is logical, everything is possible. Everything is empty. We are whole. Don’t think. Don’t stop. Touch! Tremble. Freedom for a couple of moments. Fly to a place that only we can… Break a part. When you’ll write about me a song, it will be very painful. While imagining this song, my heart shrinks. Tears will arise when you’ll listen, even if you won’t understand a word. The song will take control over you. Nobody will understand how so much love turns into so much pain, without no one dead. When you’ll write a song about me, this will be the song that will succeed. Emotion will knock on the door. He doesn’t let it in. Emotion will wait because it doesn’t know otherwise. He is afraid. She continues. He continues. Emotion will wait.
> your sometimes confusing between a husband, a lover and a friend. be careful.
> so, what happened?
> empty and shallow cart board marionette, but i enjoyed sleeping with you.
> i’m staying!
> no. its a mess. better let it die. its in between. it can never succeed.
> ok then, lets bury it.
> we can meet later at the cemetery and place a memorial stone. sorry, i can’t cry no more. no tears.
> not in a sexy mood now
> she doesn’t have the urge. he doesn’t have it too. no urge at all. no passion. nothing left. sorrow.
> do you remember something?
> there was something?
> we’ll sort it out slowly.
> yes. it will be exposed in the dark.
> can i come for one more time?
> what does she wants?
> she wants you to fuck, suck, toss and kiss her, human attitude of course, be a port, be an anchor.
> yesterday i’ve been talking too much, so i try now to shut up, but than i get too tight-lipped.
> how will you transmit your desire? i can wait patiently.
> do you think there is more love or violence?
> he told me about a girl that kissed him. i suddenly kissed him too. i think he was surprised. he gave in. I touched him softly at the shoulder.
> you play, i play, she plays, he plays, they play, we are playful. one cake, more or less. one romance, more or less. what can be the difference?
> i went to sleep with a hole in my heart and tears in my eyes. but after all, tomorrow is another day.
> it can eventually turn out to be positive.
> look at the fan. are you scared?
> tell them to wait.
> why? why? why?
> because you are a free spirit.
> it made me furious. during a long period i was going around with this anger. i could do something really bad. it was very flattering, but quite violent. although i liked it that way too.
> it happened a year ago. there wasn’t any place where we could sit. he said that he was tired and that it is a sign from above, so he left right away. we agreed that maintaining our relationship is a very complicated task and it can happen only when the tension disappears.
> i noticed that there was something sexual at his glance. i had this erotic dream last night…
> everything is so blurry, are you real?
> yes, but you are confused.
> what do you think about the film?
> i thought that it represents relations between men and women in a precise way, meaning there is complexity, distortion, violence and monstrous feelings as well. this image bothers me. maybe that is the goal, to keep the observer troubled.
> he probably has emotional disabilities.
> i am exercising…allow me… please!
> he didn’t say anything. he wore a poker face.
> everything looks different, everybody changed, i have changed. i can’t recognize a thing.
> he asked me to insult him, but i refused.
> it’s forbidden, its nasty. but what can i do? i can’t control it. i’m attracted like a magnet.
> what do you want? what does a woman want?
> words, words, words… she wants you to hypnotize her with your words, with the special way that you can say those words. she wants you to fuck her. insult her and respect her. she want’s erotic relations with you. no more clouds.
> what do you mean?
> a sadness flood takes over me. it’s melancholic, suffocating, a terrible disaster.
> who’s the third side? is it a square? symmetric and right. is it a pentagon, a hexagon or an octagon?
> everything has to be timed.
> the bicycle issue isn’t solved. you’re still a mystery for me.
> i want to take off your cloth. open your zipper. take it off slowly, till the pants roll down to the floor. stay standing with a t-shirt and with shoes. and then, i’ll take off your t-shirt and your underwear. i want to receive it on borrowed time. we’ll exchange some words, impressions, evidences. we’ll make some journeys that we never could have made before.
> that handshake had a peculiar feel. it was gentle, soft and awkward.
> so, when will we meet?
> i think it will take some time. you can call me when you feel comfortable or when you are ready.
> i had to write this down as if it could help me relocate myself.
“No words. No comments. It’s perfect!”
Text & Photograph: G.W.H, Veronica Fiesta & Yossef Simantov
21 Dec 2009
oh, c’mon, what’s the drama?
i’ve told you already on our second date ’bout my “issues”
so stop acting like it’s all about you
if you were man enough to accept me as i am,
i might be tempted to believe once more that someone could ever give me an orgasm
and you faggots can spare me the bullshit,
i’m not talking about “jouissance” and all that lacan’s crap
i’m talking about o r g a s m
one that blows up your mind, carries you to distant shores and make you give up your ego.
and it’s not that i haven’t tried
god (and more than half of this ratty city) know how hard i’ve tried
but i just can’t find it.
so the hell with it, i simply stopped trying.
i’d rather jerk off for 15 minutes
than feel that emptiness again and the urge for somebody else to fulfill me
and even those 15 minutes are a waist of time. I only touch myself to stop the itch,
this violent itch, that doesn’t let go and burns like hell.
that’s why i asked you to take me to the nettle field behind your parent’s house
i wore my best plissé skirt, remember? with no underwear.
it was such a refreshing change from the sunbreeze oil, which i buy in gallons from Hagar, my neighbor, you know her, the one who works with the sunrider m.l.m……
Photograph: Karin Mendelovici Text: Gil Jacobson
15 Dec 2009
A proposal for a permanent but variable section for the Ms.Use Magazine and website.
A Sextext Project
Victoria’s ten commandments:
1. Victoria’s section is not depended on a fixed mood. Meaning, sometimes it’s funny, sometimes it’s sad, serious, ridiculous, drastic, amusing or boring.
2. Victoria’s section publicizes each time one image.
3. Victoria’s section is a variable format. (interview, conversation, story, poem, passing thought, quiz, advise, idiom, letter, play, consciousness flow or a list).
4. Victoria’s section deals with different aspects of sexuality.
5. Victoria’s section combines material and spiritual matters.
6. Victoria’s section is spread out over maximum a page.
7. Victoria’s section considers human sensitivity.
8. Victoria’s section aims for the sake of the truth victory.
9. Victoria’s section opens the heart, the mind and the body.
10. Victoria’s section is sensual, delightful and sexy.